Hi viewers
hope y’all had a nice Eid-il-fitri? Well I did, courtesy the few Muslim friends
I have. I had a great time. Well today’s talk is not about the fun I had its
about few of the lots that happens in relationship of today and maybe back
then. Today I am looking at “FRIENDS DATING THEIR CLOSE FRIENDS’S EX” is it
cool or not cool?
Well few weeks
ago I was having a chit chat with few friends and this topic was raised because
, a friend of mine is involved with this situation and she needs advise, what
really happened was that Nicole(not real name) has not been in a relationship
for a long time, she is pretty and intelligent but we don’t know why it’s hard
to get a man of her own, but luckily she met this guy and according to her two
words describes him “awesome” and “smart” her kinda guy, he asked her out and
of course she agreed and she couldn’t wait to share the “latest gist” with her
friends, she invited us to a conference chat since it was easier to share
simultaneously with everyone and it was fun, we all wished her well. She decided
not to introduce him to us until she clocks 30yrs which was in a month’s time
by then and we all felt cool with it ,
she wanted a simple, stylish yet classy
birthday party for her friends, so she invited us all and we promised to grace
the occasion, Long story short,
the birthday day came and since most of us are
used to the “African time thingy” some of us got there late, due to one reason
or the other, on getting there while the single ones were trying to dangle and
mingle others were trying to hook themselves up, meanwhile something else was going on that some of us
didn’t even know, you see we are all friends , some of us knew ourselves since
we were in high school while some, we met along the way, we share lot of things
together yet we don’t share everything, back to the gist of the day, Evelyn met
this cut guy two years after he left Nicole, they dated for a very short period
and it ended like a fling relationship, they broke up due to a reasons that are
unknown to Evelyn, she felt really hurt and rejected ,but they still parted
ways. After all the wining and dining, it was time to give her vote of thanks,
after thanking her folks and friends for making her feel special on the
occasion, she brought her boyfriend forward to thank for the support her gave
her and to her friends amazement he was the same “Rick” that dumped Evelyn for
reasons unknown to her, since it was the first time we saw him, there was
little we could do or say at that moment, but trust we all went cold because we know it wasn’t going to go down well with Evelyn.
Nicole waited almost all her life for this moment and now that she thinks she
finally got the man of her dreams her friend are going to ruin it, trust me, we
girls know how to tear down a 10 storey building with just our mouth, okay the
party came to an end and we all went our separate ways with the cold shoulder,
we decided to call her and tell her to be very Careful with Rick, some of the
girls disagreed and said it was best for her to end the relationship because he
was Nicole’s Ex, while some of the girls didn’t see any big deal in dating her
friend’s Ex since the relationship ended
a long time ago, it was very chaotic because while some of the gurls agreed and
supported Nicole dating Evelyn ‘e Ex some totally disagree, and as for Evelyn
she said she is totally against the relationship and she can’t stand seeing one
of her bestie date her ex and not with the way he even dumped her.
Personally I
don’t know what to say, because I don’t see a big deal in my friend dating my
ex, afterall whoever you are dating or married to presently was someone’s Ex, just that you don’t who it is, my opinion,
yes I know
Tell me
yours!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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