Friday, 4 May 2012

A Great Relationship: Luck or Great Relationship Skills?

I’d like to know what you believe about men and relationships.

There are really only two ways I see it.
You either believe that you’re basically given a certain “luck” with men, and that you’ve either got it or you don’t when it comes to true love.
You believe that it takes a certain set of “skills” to meet a great guy and make a real and lasting relationship work, and that, as an intellectually and emotionally intelligent woman, you can improve your own set of “skills.”

You Make Your Dating Luck - Good Or Bad

Here’s the thing…
If any part of you is still holding on to the idea that you have bad luck - and that you are destined to be unlucky - then I have to be honest.
All this really isn’t for you, and I don’t want you to waste your time or energy here.
You’re not really ready to make a change in your life, because you still don’t accept the simple fact that it is YOU and only you who holds the power to change things.
But if you believe that love and really amazing relationships - like most other things in life - are created by the luck that happens when the right situation (man) intersects with the right person who’s ready… then keep reading.
You’re going to get a lot out of this.

First Understand His Commitment Process

For most men, a lasting commitment isn’t just a matter of choosing a woman and saying “yes.”
“It takes a specific set of ongoing experiences to get a man to keep opening up and to learn to love and share more deeply as time goes on.”
It takes a specific set of ongoing experiences to get a man to keep opening up and to learn to love and share more deeply as time goes on.
See... some women naturally understand what this “thing” is that I'm talking about and never come across some of the other common problems that other women run into again and again with men and relationships.
They have an actual SKILL that they use intuitively, which causes the men they’re with to actually CHASE THEM and LEAD THEM into a committed and loving relationship.
Isn’t that how it’s “supposed” to be anyhow?
It is. But as you may know all too well that it doesn’t always work this way for some women.
In fact, it only works this way with men if you know how to trigger specific emotions and responses inside a man - and then keep those things going and alive in a long-term relationship.

Next, Fine-Tune Your Relationship Skills

But not every woman naturally “gets” how to keep things passionate and growing with a man more than a few months or so until the guy predictably pulls away or becomes distant and starts doubting things.
It’s at this moment that, for some women, the wheels come off completely and they have no idea what to do about it to get things back on track.
I’ve got good news for you...

There’s a simple “skill” you can learn and become great at with men that often means the difference between the love you want and constant heartbreak.
Best of all, contrary to popular belief, this skill is NOT something you have to be born with.
The truth is, any woman who is opening to learning about men can learn these skills.
And any woman can quickly begin improving her dating life or her relationship with that one special man with this one skill.
So what is this one essential skill among the many relationship skills?
It’s the skill of creating ATTRACTION inside a man, and making your man feel that intense emotion of ATTRACTION when he’s with you.

Unique and Unpredictable

It may surprise you, but one of the easiest, most effective ways to create attraction within a man - instantly and over time - is to be unique and unpredictable.
What I mean is you need to mix the serious with the fun and do it in a way he's not expecting. It creates mystery and makes him want to stay with you because you're always exciting to him. This requires a little thought and creativity, but the best part about it is that it keeps the relationship exciting for you, too.
So mix it up: if you normally do the same thing on Sunday mornings, come up with something different and unexpected. If you're meeting a guy in a bar, don't ask him what he does for a living. Engage him on a completely different subject he's not expecting. When a man knows exactly what you're going to do or say, then you become predictable. And predictable equals boring.CHEERS

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